The Secret to finding your Soulmate
Do you get frustrated with the people around? Are you sick of hearing your friends go on and on about their smelly neighbor or the what happened last night on the bachelorette? Do you sometimes confide in others looking for comfort but end up feeling more confused than before?
I have quite a few close friends who I really do enjoy speaking with and spending time with but it is rare or perhaps impossible to find someone that will NEVER annoy you. But alas my readers (if you do exist) there is one person out there where this does hold true. This person will tell you exactly what you want to hear, they can make you laugh and know exactly what to say to encourage you. They will always understand what you are trying to say and never betray you.
Yes EVERYONE has that person, and that person is - wait for it - YOURSELF! Ok, ok, I know that last sentence sounded cheesier than a large pizza, but hear me out. How many have you really tried to be best friends with yourself?
When you get home from a long day at work, to you ever pat yourself on the back and say "you did a great job today?" Do you ever look in the mirror and say "daaayum you are fineee" Do you ever make hilarious jokes and chuckle to yourself, saying "good one!"
Well, my dear reader you should! Because sorry to break it to you, that perfect person/soulmate is not out there - its in you. Its about time we all started spending more time with ourselves and really appreciating how great we are. In our lives we will meet some great people who will inspire us and bring us joy. But these relationships will change over time and can disappear at any moment. If you start to treat yourself like a king/queen you wont need to take as much emotionally from others leaving space for you to give more back. Also, if you are ever stuck on a deserted island you will already have a best friend with you! So go ahead, give it a try!